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Taking the Lemons of Life and Making Lemonade

By: Elliott Roberts

Creating negative thoughts is just as simple as creating positive thoughts. Sugar Ray Robinson was the one who created that thought and, while the thought may seem like an obvious one, many people still find the art of positive thinking more a chore than a choice.

Negative thinking is like a disease. It eats away at the potential for pleasant thoughts and becomes more prominent the longer it goes unchecked. For those who succumb to this way of thinking, it becomes natural to find the worst in a situation. So much so, that they often do not even recognize their thoughts as negative. They expect the negative and some would even say that they unwittingly will the negative to happen. These negative thinkers take comfort in knowing what to expect and expecting the worst means they will rarely be disappointed. Ironically even the person who assumes the worst would like for the best to happen in their lives. Let's explore some possible ways to change habitual thought patterns so even the most profound negative thinkers can find a way to make lemonade out of lemons.

Self-help books will tell you that thinking negative brings about negative energy. There are several studies out now that show that positive thinking can "manifest" positive outcomes. If you are looking for ways to increase your happiness and improve your quality of life, then you must first determine if your thought pattern is part of the detriment to a better life. When life hands you lemons, do you make lemonade or do you complain about how unfair life is? If you are the person who finds the glass half empty instead of half full, then keep reading and hopefully you will find a few answers to help change your habit of negative thinking.

Fear, yes fear, is at the heart of negative thinking. Fear of failure when attempting to hope and dream for the best in life. Positive thinking requires a level of the unknown that many people are uncomfortable accepting. The unknown outcome of actions, the unknown end result of the hope they have sunk so much energy into. It takes courage to believe that the best is yet to come in your life and it is this courage that births positive thinking.

Along these same lines, remaining positive in the face of defeat is another aspect of living the positive lifestyle. Everyone fails, everyone stops short of full achievement at some point in their lives, this is the heart of drive. Without those defeats, the successes who fall short and be worth less and less to us over time.

Our lives are so very full of things that are positive, we often become blinded to their presence. If ever someone has said the phrase, you don't know what you have until it is gone, this is exactly the thoughts that should drive your positive thinking. There are so many things in life that are positive achievements. Children, home, job, fitness, all take time and hope and they are all positive and thus hold the positive energy needed to break that negative cycle.

The energy needed to move from a negative thinker to a positive thinker is all there for the taking. Dread is the biggest energy drainer in the world and when a person chooses to stop dreading things in life and start using that spent energy on achieving a positive lifestyle, the sun will open and the horizon will seem to go on forever.

Life is all about our minds and the path our minds take to positivity. When we choose to live in the negative lights of life, the drain on our souls is evident in the lack of positive thoughts. Opening up our hearts to positive thinking will improve life and the chance of meeting all our positive dreams.

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About The Author: Elliott Roberts writes for Becomng, a Personal Development blog, discussing ideas from Productivity to Meditation, and more. Visit Becomng, and change your life forever!

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